They say you are who you are when no one else is around…I’m just me
They say you are what you think…I think I’m the ish
I walk it like I talk it and I walk it like a model
I love being a Southern girl
I don’t think I could ever date a White guy. I need someone that appreciates my thick thighs and full bottom as much as I do
I have a crush on myself. I check me out every time I pass a mirror or anything reflective
Oddly enough…I’m bashful. LOL
Yes, I’m modest, but right now I am in one of my “I’m THAT chick” moods
We all have a thorn in our sides that we battle with…mine is lust
I always hear people say “You’re beautiful, you’re smart, you’re honest, and you’re sexy.”
I can cook like a true Southern woman. Smothered ribs, pork chops, chicken, rice, gravy from scratch, corn, sweet cornbread that’s buttered as soon as it comes from the oven, sweet potatoes, smothered potatoes, juicy rib eye steaks, seafood pastas…the list goes on
I speak eloquently, and I have been told I have a soothing voice on more than one occasion
I know how to dress for any occasion
I never ask anyone for money. I work for what I want, and if I can’t have what I want I would rather go without
I have nice hair and impeccable hygiene
I have a very healthy libido
I love to laugh, make out, and I don’t sleep in frumpy pajamas
Yet…I go to bed alone every night, yearning
A beautiful woman like you going to bed alone? That's a crime.
ReplyDeleteGurl where talking about me 2???we have so much in common..lol..maybe its the Virgo in us..lol
ReplyDeleteDid i say happy nu year gurl??m sure i did, if not then happy nu yr xx
just know that you're not the only one.....sigh
ReplyDeletein due time Queen you will meet your KING. (and when you do send his brother my way. thanks)lol :)
Thats cuz you are so damn good all these dude cant step to the QUEEN! Norrin do you O...Yours will come in time. I Love your blog men ~ you are lyrically lyrical...like WOW!
ReplyDeleteall of these qualities eloquently describe you. they are the foundation for what you and some lucky man will establish in the near future. don't stop being who you are
ReplyDeleteWith all that uv got...and u still go to Bed alone....Girl thats so not fair...
ReplyDeleteBut its never fair....isnt it?
cheers
Just do your do. The King will come meanwhile enjoy who you are now.
ReplyDeleteNice attributes.
ReplyDeleteHowever, do u ve patience and forgiven spirit.
Will u be submissive.
Once he establishes those, ie patience, forgiveness and submission, he will reveal himself to u. so work on those virtue. Or if u fill, u ve them, then convince us that u ve it. give illustration to show where u exhibited those vitures.
Thanks.
Himself
don't you just hate when people leave you anonymous comments about stuff you've already talked about? it's so obvious they're either new or they haven't taken the time to absorb your older posts....so anyway...
ReplyDeleteall of those qualities are awesome to have my virgo sis...obviously you think highly of yourself. because you think highly of yourself, you will not SETTLE for any ole knee grow canine who comes sniffing around. confucious say: sleep with dog...you wake up with fleas.
trust me i know sleeping alone aint easy...but it's better than sleeping with a dog and his fleas (his drama!!!) just to have someone to sleep with.
Your plight, my plight, so many other women's plights.
ReplyDeleteI wonder what kind of plights the men have. We all need to come together and talk so we can all be plight free.
I definately have a crush on me too! Like Mary J sang, "so I like what I see when I'm looking at me when I'm walking past the mirror!" LOL
ReplyDeleteKeep doing you, your prince will come to fulfill that yearning... at that right time.
Stay fabulous!
make that your King!
ReplyDeleteIn due time my sistah...In due time!! :-)
ReplyDeleteThat's because HE is sending that special brother made just for you hunnie, we can't have all this foooooiinness( dats how we brooklynites do)wisdom, intelligence and beautiful soul wasted on some asshole, so.. Good things happen to does who wait,don't worry it won't be long.
ReplyDeleteAnd I'm sure Baroque won't mind making a compromise with you 4 the time being, lol
Zena( lazy again)
Cigarette please! Whew!
ReplyDeleteMista Jaycee
aargh! blogger just exed my comment!
ReplyDeletebreathe Sma, breathe...
lol
ok, i just wrote that it's your incosistent sissy again, hope u love me nonetheless...lol
and that this current "state of being" will soon change such that you will look back and wonder why u ever allowed yourself to be bothered!
have a Supercalifragilisticexpialidocious 2009 babe, i can think of any word more encompassing than that...lol
*can,t*
ReplyDeletefirst of all am going to say, speaking 4rm an artistic point of view, this is one good write up. u bring us up, give us suspense & den finishes up wit a good ending.
ReplyDeleted other thing i wanted to say is dat u shouldn't worry abt going to bed everyday at night alone. i do think it's something every woman goes 2ru at one time or the other in her life. i chose to call it my wilderness moment or winter. in winter, d trees hibernate so dat they can gloom n spring. i think d trees take dat time 2 heal wounds & work on their flaws so they r better trees dan they were d last spring. as such, u see, winter is not sure a bad thing afterwards. infact, it's a good thing.
after reading this,
ReplyDeletei just needed to have met you 10 years ago Queenie
love the style you have put down
and the plight as well after deep words...
it sounds like a Jill Scott track's lyrics...
sweets no be only you oooo
ReplyDeletei look at some females and i wonder why they are single
what do brothers want??????
stay you
the one that will apprecite you as you are......will come along........*wink*
I kinda a like you now.
ReplyDeleteAlright now...with some of these statements dont be surprise if you get dudes/chicks coming out of lurkerville and stalker world tryna get at you LOL..love ya
ReplyDeletequeen, what did u do to my comment?!!!!!!!!
ReplyDeleteKeith...I don't know why that made me blush. Yep, I sleep all by my lonesome. LOL
ReplyDeleteShona...The mystery of the Virgo woman. *Sigh* LOL. Happy New Year to you as well, Hunny Bee!!!
Sexy...You already know I will, but ONLY if you promise to do the same. LOL. Ain't no fun if the homies can't have one, too. LOL
Temite...Awwwwww, you don't know how that made my day. You're all too kind, Luv. *Blushing*
Kyle...I will never stop being me. You're so sweet sometimes. LOL
Normzo...I guess all's fair in love and war...
LusciousR...That's exactly what I am doing. There are many many days that I appreciate being single. They outweigh the days I miss having one around.
Anon...Um, yeah, okay.
Diva...OMG I so love you for that! Your comment honestly made me appreciate exactly where I am in life at this moment.
Real Hustla...I agree. I wish we could all kick back and really say what's what and walk away with a better understanding of many things.
NDQ...Your comments always make me smile. I'm so glad to know that I am not the only chick that's crushing on herself.
Ms. B...I know, it just gets kinda hard sometimes, but I'm good! LOL
Zena...I so love you! LOL. I wish I could just hug you. *Pouting* Baroque hasn't been around lately.
Mista Jaycee...LMAO! That was cute. Thank you.
Sma...LMAO! I won't tell you how many times I had to read, re-read, and THEN sound out that word like a kindergartner.
FFF...That couldn't have been said better. I pondered over your comment for about 2 days. I truly thank you for that. *Kisses*
B2B...Hey you! 10 years ago, huh? LOL. You know I am flattered because the world knows what a bit J.Scott fan I am. LOL
Ibiluv...I am patiently waiting and in the meantime working on my *gasp* FLAWS! LOL.
Tha Bossmack...What? You didn't like me before?
Poca...LMAO! The women need not apply. I have no problem chopping it up with women, but only a man can chop me down. You feel me? LOL
Bumight...LMAO!!!!! I didn't do anything to it. You actually commented on the post before this one. No be my fault your comment is not where you thought you left it. LOL. How are you Baby Cakes?
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ReplyDeleteso, i'm having a crush on you, & you're busy having a crush on yourself...huh?
ReplyDelete...anyway, some things about you remind me of someone i know...so i'll without apologies say, your wahala is too much *wink*
iLike
Ditto!!
ReplyDeletel-o-v-e your blog.
ciao
Mocha
...should be a line forming to the left...
ReplyDeleteWow, this was lovely. I definitely agree. I so have a crush on myself. As one of my friends constantly says, 'If i could i would marry myself!'. and can dress the part for any occasion....ditto!
ReplyDeleteLove it!
I think I'm in love
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b4 i comment next time i'll do well to look for what has been said about me...you guys are making me feel naked...anwyay, anything for my Dr.Queen, i'll compromise what it takes to make you happy (& dont even start getting all creative on my ass, ok)...x
ReplyDeleteBaroque...LOL. The crush is mutual. Don't worry, I won't get all uber creative on you. Just a little bit of this, a lot of THAT, is all I really require. I'll be sure to reciprocate as often as needed/wanted. ;-)
ReplyDeleteMocha...Thanks Luv!
G...Nope, there's no line there. LOL
Sou B...Thank you so much for stopping by. Hey, you can love you better than you? LOL
Anon...LOL. Are you really?
Nope I dont gerrrit.
ReplyDeleteHow the *bling does that happen, you going to bed alone?
I know like a gazillion naija men who'd give a thumb to have a 'bootilicious' chic, who can cook up a storm and wants a storm in the bedroom...you got ME salivating.
Maybe. just maybe, your 'bashful' side isnt letting you out much to mingle? eh?
"I speak eloquently,..." speak and let me lose relish your eloquency.
ReplyDelete"...have a soothing voice..." hmmm...